Coaching Philosophy
Child Sexual Abuse is designed to permanently eradicate a person capabilities an rights to survive and succeed. It teaches fear and uplift behaviors that only promote destruction, Identity crisis, substance abuse, delinquency, promiscuity and mental disorders. These behaviors are not derived by nature, they are in fact learned. Each of my clients trauma is different and they must be addressed differently.
My philosophy is to start where the clients are in life, building a foundation of survival. Being that fear and destruction has been taught, we have to teach opposing to fear and replace it with those things that are designed to triumph it. Addictions, Weakness, Identity Crisis, and more; all of these things was not brought on ,on their on and can't be taken down by themselves.
It is important to me that my clients are able to make fully conscious decisions on how they want their lives to be, and not what their abusers have made it to be. I will teach and guide my client on how to get unstuck in sticky situations. Situations like lack of trust from love ones, being in relationships you don't want to be, promiscuous relationships, strategies on how to live safe, uncontrollable emotions, self doubt and more.
My philosophy is to start where the clients are in life, building a foundation of survival. Being that fear and destruction has been taught, we have to teach opposing to fear and replace it with those things that are designed to triumph it. Addictions, Weakness, Identity Crisis, and more; all of these things was not brought on ,on their on and can't be taken down by themselves.
It is important to me that my clients are able to make fully conscious decisions on how they want their lives to be, and not what their abusers have made it to be. I will teach and guide my client on how to get unstuck in sticky situations. Situations like lack of trust from love ones, being in relationships you don't want to be, promiscuous relationships, strategies on how to live safe, uncontrollable emotions, self doubt and more.
Who do I work with?
My coaching practice is geared towards young black boys and girls from ages 12-17 and young men and women who are survivors of Child Sexual Abuse in the Black Community.
- My services is also geared towards families who are recent recovering victimize families,
- Youth who are transitioning from youth to adulthood with the history of Child Sexual Abuse,
- Single mothers and or Fathers with children or teens who have been sexually abused,
- Young girls who are incarcerated, group homes, foster care and shelters.
- Survivors who have never told their story and wants to tell,
- Youth with a history of CSA and having a hard time with school.
- Youth and adults who battle with their self-esteem and uncontrollable emotions
- Young adults, families, and teens with the history of CSA who wants a new start in life.
What services do I offer?
Most of my services consist of in person classes, group and individual sessions via telephone and web:
- I help clients define and identify ways to keep themselves safe
- Develop and teach strategies to combat unhealthy coping habits and replace them with powering coping habits that produces nothing but great results and outcomes in life
- Provide resources and networking to assure the success of the clients goal
- Put time aside to walk a day in the client day to day to see what its like to properly asses them and their needs.
